Around 7:45am, one lady doctor came out and told me that they did an extray & found out that Man fractured his right shoulder. And he still has the stomach pain. So, doctor going to check further at his stomach. She asked me to go back first bcoz it will take a while for him to get a ward. So, I went back home by taxi.
Sampai rumah jer, terus kedapur goreng beehun tauchu. Pasal nanti satu hari kat ward mesti malas nak turun kantin cari makan.
Waktu tengah nak siap2, A&E called to inform that Man is in ward 27. And waktu tengah siap, ward 27 called to inform the same thing. Aku bergegas suruh Faris & Sarah siap cepat. And kemudian Man pulak called, he told me the devastated news that doctor told him he has colon cancer. Ya Allah... aku menangis bilang budak2 & terus gi hospital.
Sampai di hospital carpark, Man called again, asking why we haven't reach yet. Upon reaching the ward, we rushed to his room. A nurse who was attending to him, cornered us and informed about the devastated news. Sarah & I cried....Faris was very calm. And the nurse called the doctor to inform that the family has arrived. We went back to his room, he's lying on the bed looking confused and it made my heart broke. While waiting for the doctor, Abg Ali, Kak Idah & Yanti came. Apparently, Abg Ali called Man to say that he want to drop by our house to see Man bcoz Kak Idah told him about Man's shoulder. So, Man told Abg Ali on the phone that he's in hospital & doctor said he has cancer. So, they rushed to the hospital & arrived shortly after we arrived. Awhile later, a lady doctor came and explained everything about his condition. A&E doctors did a CT scan on his lower abdomen and found that his colon has burst. The fecal in the colon has leaked out. They found a tumor in the sigmoid colon & mentioned that the tumor is hard. Apparently, the tumor is cancer and it has spread to his liver as well. Kak Idah asked the doctor, what stage is Man now & the doctor said 'its stage 4'. Ya Allah!!!!! Ya Allah!!!!! Ya Allah!!!!.. 😢😢😢 Doctors has to perform an emergency operation to contain the waste and also to remove section of the affected colon. All these has to be done fast, that's the reason they want us to come quickly.
Tak pernah sekali, aku terfikir yang suami ku akan mengidap cancer. Tak pernah terfikir langsung! Kuasa Allah sangat luas & tiada siapa yang boleh halang. Aku berdoa ya Allah, kau selamat kan lah suami ku.
Fahmi & Ain was attending Helena's wedding. Fahmi who was working night shift yesterday, rushed to the hospital after Faris informed him the news. Rafiah also rushed to the hospital after Abg Ali informed her. And Razni who worked morning shift, rushed to the hospital and managed to see Man just before Man being pushed to the operating theatre.
Sampai di hospital carpark, Man called again, asking why we haven't reach yet. Upon reaching the ward, we rushed to his room. A nurse who was attending to him, cornered us and informed about the devastated news. Sarah & I cried....Faris was very calm. And the nurse called the doctor to inform that the family has arrived. We went back to his room, he's lying on the bed looking confused and it made my heart broke. While waiting for the doctor, Abg Ali, Kak Idah & Yanti came. Apparently, Abg Ali called Man to say that he want to drop by our house to see Man bcoz Kak Idah told him about Man's shoulder. So, Man told Abg Ali on the phone that he's in hospital & doctor said he has cancer. So, they rushed to the hospital & arrived shortly after we arrived. Awhile later, a lady doctor came and explained everything about his condition. A&E doctors did a CT scan on his lower abdomen and found that his colon has burst. The fecal in the colon has leaked out. They found a tumor in the sigmoid colon & mentioned that the tumor is hard. Apparently, the tumor is cancer and it has spread to his liver as well. Kak Idah asked the doctor, what stage is Man now & the doctor said 'its stage 4'. Ya Allah!!!!! Ya Allah!!!!! Ya Allah!!!!.. 😢😢😢 Doctors has to perform an emergency operation to contain the waste and also to remove section of the affected colon. All these has to be done fast, that's the reason they want us to come quickly.
Tak pernah sekali, aku terfikir yang suami ku akan mengidap cancer. Tak pernah terfikir langsung! Kuasa Allah sangat luas & tiada siapa yang boleh halang. Aku berdoa ya Allah, kau selamat kan lah suami ku.
The operation has been scheduled at 3pm. So, at 2:30 the porter came to push him to the operating theatre. All of us walked together, followed the porter from behind. I was dizzy...my mind entah fikir segala benda. Ya Allah....
I called Mis to inform her. First, I told her that I want to 'kirim' duit sumbangan majlis kahwin Kak Mini today. And then, I said 'we cannot attend bcoz Aob is not well. He's now in NUH and going for emergency operation soon'. This offcourse shocked her.
Waiting....waiting....waiting...
everybody getting very restless.....
Sarah, Fahmi, Ain, Faris
Rafiah, Razni, Irfan
Abg Ali, Kak Idah, Yanti, Iman, Didi
Kak Rumnah, JayJay, Lynn, Ib, three kids
Mis, Zul
Nana
Jimmy, Zulfa
Finally, at 10pm, they pushed Man back to his HDU room. He's conscious but looked very dizzy. One of the lady surgeon came and explained to us about the operation. They have removed the diseased colon. And made an opening through the skin on his abdomen and connects the bowel to that opening. It is called a stoma and his stool passes out of the body through the opening. So, a disposable bag (stoma bag) is attached over the opening to collect his stool.
All of us take turns to see him at his bed. Ya Allah...engkau lah maha pelindung, lindungi lah suami ku ya Allah.
We left the hospital at 12+ midnite.
I called Mis to inform her. First, I told her that I want to 'kirim' duit sumbangan majlis kahwin Kak Mini today. And then, I said 'we cannot attend bcoz Aob is not well. He's now in NUH and going for emergency operation soon'. This offcourse shocked her.
everybody getting very restless.....
Sarah, Fahmi, Ain, Faris
Rafiah, Razni, Irfan
Abg Ali, Kak Idah, Yanti, Iman, Didi
Kak Rumnah, JayJay, Lynn, Ib, three kids
Mis, Zul
Nana
Jimmy, Zulfa
Finally, at 10pm, they pushed Man back to his HDU room. He's conscious but looked very dizzy. One of the lady surgeon came and explained to us about the operation. They have removed the diseased colon. And made an opening through the skin on his abdomen and connects the bowel to that opening. It is called a stoma and his stool passes out of the body through the opening. So, a disposable bag (stoma bag) is attached over the opening to collect his stool.
All of us take turns to see him at his bed. Ya Allah...engkau lah maha pelindung, lindungi lah suami ku ya Allah.
We left the hospital at 12+ midnite.
